Why do people act like showing real effort is a joke?
Whether it’s falling in love every 6 years or wearing a suit to a job interview — that’s literally how it should be.

In this clip, we break down why being “lovey-dovey” or buttoned up ain’t lame — it’s intentional.
Some folks make dating feel like an emotional obstacle course, then laugh at the ones who are genuine.
But real talk? Effort ain’t extra — it’s necessary.

Let us know in the comments:
Have you ever been made to feel too serious for caring the right way?

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