“You didn’t want the old me. You wanted the version of me who was ready.”

This clip dives into the reality that men go through different stages before becoming husband material.
It’s not just about money. It’s about emotional maturity, growth, and the understanding that you can’t show up for someone else until you’ve done the work on yourself.

Whether it was school, the economy, trauma, or timing—we all had to pivot and grow.
This conversation is about what it really takes to be ready for love.

💬 COMMENT: Have you ever met the right person, but you were the wrong version of yourself?

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